We’re lucky if we see him out of bed for more than an hour a day, he doesn’t come out anywhere with us, he’s snappy and impatient and moody, etc etc.īut is separating worse? Are the bad times worth depriving them of our family unit and having their dad around, when he is and can be a really great parent when he’s not struggling, and this may all get better once he’s diagnosed and medicated? Will separating damage them more or less than continuing to be around someone with only glimmers of their true personality and happiness? (I know his ADHD is the real him too, but his personality when not completely overshadowed by his symptoms). In an ideal world I would want to be together and have none of this be an issue, but I know this is just the way he’s wired, and it’s going to take a lot of work to figure out, and I feel like it’s gotten to be such an awful environment for the kids (and me) to live in. I’m so torn because I do love him, and I when he’s in a good space mentally we genuinely have no issues and he pulls his weight round the house and with our 2 kids, but those times are so few and few between, and are getting even more so, and even more brief, and I’m so resentful that it’s making me angry. He’s just been given a higher dose anti-depressant and a prescription for medical marijuana, and is due to begin intensive group CBT, but, to be brutally honest, I just don’t know if I like him very much any more, enough to wait out another supposed solution or tool that will improves things yet again. I order meds (anti-depressants, dosage more than doubled over this year), I do all the school runs, I cook, I clean, I do 99% of the care for the baby, I remind him to wash (not that he does more than once every 1-2 weeks) I schedule doctors appointments, I compose emails, the list goes on. I don’t think I could have done, or continuously do, any more for him, but everything is still just shit. His symptoms are MANY and complex, but include mood swings, complete inability to regulate his own emotions, impatience, zero motivation for anything other than (certainly at the moment) sleeping or gaming, anxiety that sees him unable to leave the house for days if not weeks on end, etc etc. He’s awaiting assessment for ADHD and possible autism, and experiences bouts of extreme anxiety and depression alongside this. There’s no real way to tell it succinctly, but my partner of 7 years has been struggling with his mental health for a long time, but more so in the last year+. We are the building with clean cars and smiling guests.Looking for some advice and other’s experiences on how to know when it’s time to end a relationship with kids involved. Find us near at 10680 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers, FL 33913. With 50+ years of innovation, we are continually challenging ourselves to ensure we stay environmentally friendly, help our local communities, give your vehicle the best wash possible, and – most importantly - give YOU the car washing experience suitable for your lifestyle. Smiling faces, easy loading conveyer belts, and our wide-open wash tunnel create an enjoyable and non-claustrophobic wash experience. Unlimited or PayPerWash memberships are available, and allow you to customize your Tommy's Express experience. Thanks to our incredible guests, we have positively impacted over 8,000 lives with Water Mission, and that number continues to grow with each wash.Īt Tommy's Express, we have two membership options, both of which are managed with the Tommy's Express App on your smartphone. Water Mission builds safe water, sanitation, and hygiene solutions in developing nations as well as providing aid for local and global disaster areas. With every single wash at Tommy's Express, we donate to Water Mission. We love serving our guests, but we believe in helping the world too. Our site is locally operated, and we are proud to be part of the community. Want the complete spa experience?ĭetail kits are available for purchase onsite,Īnd our vacuums and mat washers are always free for our fabulous members! Our app lane for Tomm圜lub members and a 3-minute wash process allows for a quick pitstop at your convenience. Our Fort Myers location opens early and stays open late to fit even the busiest schedule. We believe in a wash that delivers impressive quality and works with any lifestyle. Our industry-leading wash uses low energy and reclaimed water, making it friendly for the planet. You know what they say, "look good, feel good." At Tommy's Express, we believe in clean and green. You will exit our Tommy Tunnel with a shine and a smile. We believe in enriching lives, adding value, and serving communities. At Tommy's Express, we are more than just a car wash. It is our absolute pleasure to serve you and your vehicle with the best washing experience in town.
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